
Jacqueline and Joseph are working their way through a set of problems.
Those few of you who are local to The Bridge may recognize these two
in spite of the image blurring, but Shh!
Let’s keep their names out of the discussion for a while.
The Bridge is open to all of the population, here, not just the Bribri. J & J have some major hurdles to overcome, and they continue to walk, and sometimes stumble, along the rather rocky path toward their solution. Jacqueline is a mother, with several children. The children are being kept in a holding home by PANI – the group that watches over children here. She has to come up with an acceptable home for her kids, and an acceptable living, or her children will be taken away and placed in other homes permanently.
She is also the heir to the knowledge from a family business that’s many generations old. Before her father died, Jackie and her family made coconut oil, used for cooking and medicinal purposes. The father died, and the family business along with him. According to local legend, Mom started earning money by making and selling crack.
Jacqueline and Joseph are interested in a microloan to restart the coconut oil business. It will require about 140,000 colones – about $280 – to get them set up. To test her knowledge, I had her teach me how to make coconut oil. She went through all the steps needed, all the equipment used, and did a very credible job of describing the process. She even knew little “tricks” that I’d assume only someone who had really done the process would know.
She’s got the support of Joseph, who is doing his best to help her along the road toward success.
Only one problem remains – they’ve both been addicted to crack. They both went for a time to a local AA/NA 12-Step chapter, and for a while, the outlook was pretty optimistic.
I had the difficult job of explaining that we couldn’t make a microloan to someone who’s an active addict. And, like Social Services here, would probably require a drug test that shows they had been drug-free for 90 days before doing anything. I suggested that if they were to go through withdrawal, that they do it under a doctor’s supervision. Within a couple of days, Jacqueline checked herself into the clinic, and went through withdrawal, indeed, under a doctor’s supervision.
We did help by buying a tent for them to live in. They had been living at her mother’s house – and her mother was also an addict. The tent helped them get away from that location, and the people there.
Joseph found his own path to withdrawal. He apparently spent four days and nights under a bush near the beach. When Jacqueline finally found him, she called us, and we took him to the Clinic as well.
Their tent seems to be gone. Some say it’s in the hands of a local crack dealer. Jacqueline has been helping chop veggies on Thursday in trade for a bag of food. Joseph washes the car or does some yard work once in a while, usually for food, occasionally for money.
They’ve dropped out of sight – again. They have heard from several people at The Bridge and other places that “solamente la verdad esta palabra aqui” – a grammatically incorrect translation of “only the truth is spoken here.”
We don’t yet know what, if anything, has been done about her children.
The road to a miracle, though bumpy, does have a destination.....
Going to rehabilitation . . .
They recently stopped by as they came through town to pick up clothing and personal effects they wanted to take as Jackie begins the program for women in Heredia. Jacqueline got a chance to let her children know she’d be gone for a while, and they both got a chance to visit the Minister at the local Baptist church, where her children are being kept until Jacqueline can provide a suitable home for them. Joseph is interested in entering the ministry in San José. For now, he is working in Limón, saving money to have it available when Jacqueline gets out of Hogar Crea. He’s also wrestling with the issue of having to shave off his beautiful rasta locks as he enters the program for men in Limón.

Joseph and Jacqueline talk over their plans with Nanci
The discussion ranged from Jacqueline’s children, Joseph’s long-held desire to enter the Christian ministry, their stay at Hogar Crea, their plans for marriage, and the child they will be having together.
We met an American couple on the beach near La Isla, and started talking with them for “no apparent reason”. They visited The Bridge, and met J&J. The couple, Terrie and Dennis Atkinson, are in the process of “planting” a Christian church in an area of Los Angeles heavily populated by homeless people. They participate in a soup kitchen back home, and visiting The Bridge was a kind of “busmen’s holiday”. They talked and prayed with J&J for quite a while. Terrie took a beautiful diamond and ruby ring gold ring from her finger and gave this valuable symbol to Jacqueline, who tried it on. Terrie then gave the ring to Nanci, explaining to Jacqueline that “if and when they get married, this wedding ring is waiting here for her.”
We also explained that there is a microloan available when they get out of the program – donated by Bob Wojcik, who donated a computer to The Bridge for the kids, and is a frequent donor to support our programs. Jacqueline is the keeper of the knowledge of running her family’s business – making coconut oil – which ended abruptly when her father died. Jacqueline plans on restarting that business and eventually getting her children back.
J&J stayed overnight here, and left for Limón in the morning – after soup kitchen. Under the rules of Hogar Crea, we don’t expect to be hearing from them for a while. They can’t have visitors for two months. We don’t yet know what the rules for telephone calls are, but I expect we’ll be learning.
JACKIE & JOSEPH GET MARRIED
Those of you who have been with us for a while know that we’ve been working with Jackie & Joseph, a black couple from Puerto Viejo. They’ve each entered rehabilitation facilities for addiction and are working through the program. You also know that Dennis & Terrie Atkinson, a Christian missionary couple, visited here and and prayed with J & J. Then Terrie took a ring from her finger, and gave it to Nanci to hold for when the two got married. They tied the knot at the women’s rehab center on Wednesday. We went to the wedding, and since 13-year-old Carmelita and 10-year-old Irene had formed a real friendship with Jackie while she was here, we took them with with us.
A Costa Rican wedding is a legal affair, with a lawyer, white shirt on the left, and a minister, on the right, in attendance.
Jackie and Joseph are ready, sitting at the table, as the ceremony gets under way.
After the wedding, they were given a two-day conjugal visit, then it’s back to their respective shelters again for another nine months. It’s official, and Jackie and Joseph sign the marriage documents. Of course, it’s not REALLY official until...

There were a couple of things we didn’t know before coming to this wedding.
As we looked at maps and asked around about the location of this place – on the north east outskirts of San José – we noticed that people were reluctant to tell us where it was. As we got closer we started to hear warnings about the area – very dangerous, very violent. “Not even the police will go in there”, an armed bank guard said.
So we did the only thing we could do – we went in anyway.
The wedding went off fine, and the minister, Victor Fullas Saboria, took it on himself to ride with us and guide us out of the area.
Thank you, Pastor Victor.
And Thanks to all of you who have been praying for this lovely couple!
(taken from various newsletters)